Don’t Let School Get in the Way of Learning!
InSeptember, post-Labor Day, millions of students resume or begin their academic year. This can be a time of great excitement, as it is a fresh start, and a chance to do things differently. It can also be a time of anxiety, due to the new environment and people, as well as the increased expectations
Either way, this is a time of renewed focus. As Muslims in Canada, we have to ask ourselves what support and advice we can give to our young people as they settle in for this academic year.
Not Neutral
The first thing that is crucial to recognize is that school is not a neutral place of learning. Many older people think of school as an environment that is only concerned with teaching English, math and science, with no values or ideology being taught. So, while Muslim parents would never send their kids to a church youth group or a Christian summer camp, they are much more comfortable sending them to public school or university.
Schools and universities are not as overt in doing dawah to their beliefs as a Christian bible camp. However, we must recognize their dangers if we want youth to be able to benefit from them without losing their deen in the process. Schools are designed to convey the ideology, culture and values of the ruling elite. These values include hyper-individualism, materialism, maximizing personal freedoms and certainly keeping the consciousness of Allah’s (SWT) commands out of individual and societal life. Schools normalize these destructive ideas to our children and do it in a way where it does not even seem like they are preaching to them. Rather, they just make it seem like these ideas are “normal”.
In the case of public schools, Muslim students are made to believe that there is something wrong with them if they believe that men and women have different gender roles or that we are obligated to give up our desires for the sake of Allah (SWT). This is most apparent during Pride month when the celebration of personal freedom and hyper-individualism is most pronounced due to the promotion of homosexuality and unrestricted gender expression. But it would be a mistake to think that this does not happen all year.
And if Muslim students show any kind of defiance to these accepted norms, they are made to pay a higher social cost than their parents would be in their workplace. We have seen examples of Muslim students being berated by teachers for not attending school on the day pride was being celebrated and even being told to go back to their home country if they do not want to accept the Canadian way of doing things. The fact that these teachers have authority over these students, and the students don’t have any option but to sit and listen to them can give us some idea of how trapped they must feel.
What this teaches Muslim children is that if they want to be seen as normal, they must conform to the values of the larger un Islamic society in which they live. Our challenge as a community is to provide our youth with the intellectual and social support they need to not be afraid to champion the ideas of Islam, even if these ideas are unpopular. How can we do this?
Embrace the Struggle
The primary truth that our youth and the elders supporting them need to realize is that intellectual struggle is an integral part of being a Mu’min (believer). We can see this exemplified throughout the Quran, where Allah (SWT) recounts the story of every prophet and how they struggled with the political and intellectual elite of their time to establish the truth of Allah (SWT)’s message. Ibrahim (AS) debated Nimrod, Nuh (AS) preached tirelessly in the open and in secret, Shuayb (AS) called out the economic injustices of his time, Musa (AS) engaged in a competition with the top magicians of his time, and RasulAllah (SAW) challenged the Arabs of his time to imitate the style and rhetoric of the Quran. This struggle was not without consequences. Many prophets were exiled, some were imprisoned, and some were even killed for challenging the elite of their time. But this did not deter them from standing for the truth and conveying.
Obviously, we want to protect our youth from being reckless or causing themselves undue harm. But we cannot protect them from the controversy that will always be associated with trying to preserve and convey the teaching of this deen. Rather we should prepare them to handle difficult conversations with their peers, and even their elders, with wisdom and courage.
This means educating them, and even ourselves, on the intellectual proofs of the Islamic aqueedah so that they can be certain in the Oneness of Allah (SWT), about His Messengers, and the Day of Judgement. Once we are secure in our aqeedah, we can learn about the dominant ideology of our time, secular liberal Capitalism, and find out how to contrast the light of Islam with the falsehoods and misguidance it presents.
Refusing to engage in these vital conversations will not protect our children from controversy. If we are not talking to our children about these ideas, we should know that somebody else is. And that person is not guided by the revealed message of Allah (SWT) and the example of His Messenger (SAW).
Being Organized and Balanced about the Dunya
Being organized with our time and focus is crucial for Muslims, as we are a serious people with big goals. While the dunya holds very little value for us, our time in the dunya is immensely precious, as this is the only time we have been given to invest in our afterlife with good and lasting deeds. If we are distracted or neglectful, we will squander this precious time. RasulAllah (SWT) (SAW) advised us:
“Take advantage of five before five: your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your idle time before your busy time, and your life before your death.” [Al-Hakim]
Fulfilling the obligations that Allah (SWT) has placed upon us to organize our households and provide for our families, while increasing in our understanding and implementation of the deen requires a delicate balance. We have to productively engage with our dunya obligations without becoming overwhelmed by them, and losing focus of our deen. As our Beloved Messenger (SAW) warned us:
“Whoever is concerned about the Hereafter, Allah (SWT) will place richness in his heart, bring his affairs together, and the world will inevitably come to him. Whoever is concerned about the world, Allah (SWT) will place poverty between his eyes, disorder his affairs, and he will get nothing of the world but what is decreed for him.” [Tirmidhi]
As students who are working hard to establish themselves in life, it is crucial to remember that you will get no more or less rizq than Allah (SWT) has decreed for you. But if you commit to engaging with the dunya with the intention of improving your Hereafter, there will be a richness, contentment, and satisfaction in your life.
A practical way of achieving this balance is investing in skills that you are interested in and passionate about, and finding a way to serve the deen with them, whether this be a sport, physical fitness, writing, speaking, knowledge work, or technical skills. Any of these skills can be used to engage with young people who need to be encouraged in the deen, advocating for Islam and Muslims, and creating things that help others adhere to the deen.
Carrying a Civilizational Mission
Finally, it is crucial to recognize that Islam is not an individualist deen. Instead, it is a collective mission that our Ummah has been charged with. The guidance revealed upon us is meant to guide every aspect of our existence, from our individual worship, to how we form our families and businesses, to how we interact with the community, to how we structure the social, political and economic systems that rule our lives. It is our collective mission to share this guidance with the world, and to strive to apply it, even if this is hated by the powerful enemies of the truth. Even individual religious obligations like salah, learning the fundamentals of the deen, and staying away from the prohibited are better achieved by a communal approach. We must rely on each other to provide an atmosphere of imaan which inspires us to become better servants of Allah (SWT).
Crucially, this atmosphere of imaan will also empower us to carry out the full mission of this deen, as conveyed to us in the Quran:
“You are the best nation produced [as an example] for mankind. You enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and believe in Allah” [TMQ 3:110]
To Our Youth on Campus
All of these reminders are crucially important for those who are going to college or university. For the youth who are embarking on this life stage, this may be the first time that you have been given independence from your previous support system and have the ability to make your decisions. Many will tell you that this is the time for you to be free and chase your desires; what they call “experimenting”. The allure of freedom is enticing. In reality, it is a mirage in the desert. Behind the slogans lies an ocean of misery that converts one from a slave to Allah (swt) to a slave to their desires. Consequently, we must remember that Allah (SWT) saved us from falling prey to these desires by maintaining one’s obedience to Him (SWT). We must take ownership of our commitment to Allah (SWT) and recognize we are following Him (SWT) – not a culture, a tribe, or a family member.
Use this time to become an independent and mature Islamic personality, one who has a deep, profound, and reasoned conviction in Allah (SWT) and His Messenger. Submit yourself to the mission that your Creator has prepared you for, to convey the message of this deen with clarity, conviction, and compassion. Be courageous in challenging the dominant ruling system built on replacing the rule of the Creator (SWT) by the rule of the powerful. It is the same system that is responsible for the horrors we witness on the streets of Gaza and Palestine, more broadly. University/college is the time to study these issues and reflect on the tragedy that has befallen our Ummah.
However, it is not enough to study the solution. Instead, we must be part of the global organized effort to restore security, dignity and prosperity to the Muslim lands by replacing the corrupt, treacherous and dysfunctional systems that rule over the Ummah with the system of Islam. It is this system that will be a beacon of hope and shelter to all believers, as well as any sincere seekers of truth. May Allah (SWT) make us part of this noble effort.
“We relate to you ˹O Prophet˺ their story in truth. They were youths who truly believed in their Lord, and We increased them in guidance. And We strengthened their hearts when they stood up and declared, “Our Lord is the Lord of the heavens and the earth. We will never call upon any god besides Him, or we would truly be uttering an outrageous lie. [TMQ 18:13-14]